have a look at the two items after that, 'M3' ones (the only m3 ones in the list though)
Originally Posted by BMW86
The BMW E90/E92/E93 M3 Front Control Arm / Tension Strut OEM is $98.50
BMW E90/E92/E93 M3 Front Control Arm OEM Our Price: $88.95
Still missing the headlight regulating rod...
my bad, so it's only ~$200 cheaper when you factor in the rod...... (i'm assuming USPS first class shipping to australia would also be $10-$15 for such a small item, less within the states, compared to the ridiculous express price)
ED: though i think you might be able to find the rod elsewhere for closer to $10, that was the first google result, will hunt further