So an update to this madness! I did find a shop up in Redmond Speedware motorworks. Pretty nice place and very friendly guys. If you ever need some work done for your BMW I would recommend going there.
Ohlins R&T 1m setup, m3 rear links, M3 arms, bushings, AR Downpipes, ARK DTS exhaust, SPEC S3+, Stett CP, Stett CAI, ETS FMIC, BMS Clutch Stop. PTF Protune