Thanks for replies guys.
I've been googling and reading on forums about BMW jack stands and there are quite a lot of treads. But not many with definitive answer(s).
I think for emergency or if I just need to work on one wheel, I'll use an adapter from ecs or some other place to jack up at 1 of the 4 side jack points.
But for oil change, when I actually need to put two jack stands on plastic jack points, I want to find jack stands that fit Inside (and not on the two edges) of the plastic jack points.
If anyone knows where I can get a jack stand that's "Y" part will fit inside the plastic jack point, let me know!