I lived in that same area of The Netherlands for three years. Did you consider the dealer in Brunssum (I forget the name)? I understand it may feel that the dealer has poor customer service but how much of this can be attributed to the Dutch way of dealing with things. It took me a long time to get used to the laid back Dutch attitude. I'm jealous that you're there, I wish I could have stayed longer. Tot Zeins.
Future Purchase: 128i M Sport Package, 6MT