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[quote=ARES45;33180] My point is this, I bet everyone giving advice to a kid who has no choice in how his parents raise him could really focus their judging inward and work to improve their own parenting abilities.quote]
A parent often raises their children based on the experiences they encountered growing up...this is why so many abused become abusers...My parents sucked, yet they thankfully didnt physically abuse me, only mentally and verbally.....Thus,in my case,I found the will to do the direct opposite as my parents when it comes to raising my kids, and things have worked out fine.....I disagree with you though about kids having no choice on how their parents raise them.....I cant speak for other parents, but raising my kids, "you get what you give"......I can be their best friend or worst enemy, their choice.....good kids, good grades, they get the world....the opposite, God help them......actually, I cant think of any better way to parent my kids.....
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