That other part that it's connected to is just the error-canceling since they're LED. You should be able to pull that out to find that it's also plugged into your OEM connector, thus giving you more options for replacements.
If you want to keep it, any CREE LED H8 for this car should suffice, as it should retain the same style plug as what goes into your canceling device.
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