wow... guess I am still subscribed to this. Sorry folks, no pics and I no longer have the car. Wife and I had a kid (#2 on the way) and now we have an X535i and a 328i. Anyway...
I just bought a watch repair kit that had 5 - 10 different sized watch band posts and then just forced it to work
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good news is - it worked flawlessly until I traded in the car. Good luck