I even opted for the tow-hook plate kit so i didnt even have to deal with the cheap plate bracket. I would have picked a different kit than i did knowing what i know now, but its better than screw holes in the bumper!!
http://www.bimmian.com/Tow-Hook-Lice...r-E88-1-Series
I got this one and its a little cheesey. I ended up adjusting how the plate fit on the brackets and it looks a little better, but the whole washer-stack and giant securing nut looks a little cheap. There are better options, but you pay for it.