1st, might want to blur your license plate (love it btw
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2nd. Glad to hear you are fine, and getting checked by the doctor. I was in an accident with similar damage on the freeway when some idiot side swiped me, I felt a little shaken, but it wasn't till a week later that I felt extreme pain in my shoulder and found out there were torn ligaments :/ and some nerve damage.
3rd. Probably not totaled. Damage looks bad, but with the tools available now to correct frame damage, it has to be pretty severe to have the insurance company actually total the car. plus I heard that in situations where the correct the frame, it feels like a brand new car afterward.