No one would mistake me for a girl and I lOVE the 135i Msport vert.
I'm still considering it, as my 135i coupe lease is up soon.
This whole "girly car" business is really silly, and shows insecurity.
It's created by certain males who have a need to give gender to that which they wouldn't want. They feel a need to pronounce their male-ness, and believe that what they like is masculine, and the things they don't like must surely be "girly". I ain't got time for such nonsense.
Revel in your masculinity by getting the car YOU want, and let the sissy boys who won't drive a vert go merely along with their opinion.