The Training Fee really isn't supposed to be charged to the end customer. Its not on the sticker or invoice. But based on threads here some people pay it and some don't. I think it you nickel and dime then like I did they charge it to you. If you negotiate off sticker then they don't. Its only like $279 though.
Just get your VIN from your CA. Then call the 800 number every day (twice a day if you're an idiot like me) and wait for status to change to "in transit". The webiste is anywhere from 1 to several days behind the 800 number for status changes.
Once you have the VIN and your car is "in transit" then go here
http://www.2wglobal.com/www/WEP/index.jsp and under "Track & Trace" click "All Users".
Then input your VIN under Cargo ID and it will tell you what ship you're on and when its scheduled to arrive at various ports.
Once you know the ship's name you can track its progress over the ocean.