Steve, try putting your VIN (use caps for all letters and don't have any spaces) into these sites:
For East Coast:
http://schedule.2wglobal.com/AppTracking/cargoTrack.do
For West Coast:
http://www2.nykline.com/home/index.html
These work for ED delivery, but I don't know if they work for regular orders. In any case, if they work it will tell you which ship your car is on, departure date, route, etc.