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Originally Posted by E90-4life
Kinda switching gears but going w/ what I said above, I think it's better to start out as freinds and develop a good sense of who the person is and let them get to know you.. that way not matter what, relationship or not, you guys are always freinds first. At least that's how I prefer it, probably the reason why I don't have a g/f right now  |
Yep...that's the way I see it, too.
But according to every piece of dating advice literature I've ever read, the most important thing to remember, they say, is to make sure your target does NOT think of you in "friends" terms.
I guess in a perfect world you could become friends first and then go out, like you see on TV and in movies. But I don't think that is real...unless someone here can say that's actually how their relationship got started--friendship first.
But seriously, when will girls realize that guys never just want to be friends???!!!