I just ordered a set
(TRW front control arms)
as well as some OEM rear lower shock mounts, and powerflex rear upper shock mount/bushing (from ebay), hopefully have it all by early/mid-next week ish, then get it all in with my coilovers and M3 sway bar... as well as new tires to replace me bald ones
I'll at least be able to tell you if the parts look/feel good, and post up a ton of photos
won't be able to tell you the difference in the parts alone, since so much is changing, but ... still better than nothing lol
hope all this fixes most of the bounciness/noisiness my car now has -_-