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      12-26-2005, 10:16 AM   #15
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Sounds like insecurity and clingyness to me.

Personally the minute someone seems to be dependent on me, and clingy, I run for the hills. I don't like the thought of my partner disempowering themselves by being so needy. I like to be with an equal who is secure in their own skin.

Whether it is good or bad really depends on how it makes you feel. Do you feel happy that she loves you? It is good. Do you feel trapped and a heavy sense of obligation to her, or a foreboding sense that if you don't do what she asks there will be trouble and emotional blackmail? It is very bad.

Your gut will tell you whether to cut and run or stay with her. Listen to that, not us...
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