Glad you, your wife and the 1er are all okay. As has been stated a few times, it's not the deer's fault so it's really not fair to blame it much less take out a few of it's cousins because of your frustrations. They don't know to look for crosswalks lol. It's too bad it died.
It's also too bad about the damage to the car, but the good news is it's only a Corolla :wink: