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| 05-26-2006, 12:51 AM | #1 |
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Is it ever okay to tell someone...
When you are dating people is it ever okay to say "Hey, BTW I am dating other ppl as well" if it is not already understood. Or do you just go about youur business until it comes up?
I'd like to avoid hurting this guys feelings but I get bored while he's studying for the LSATs...
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| 05-26-2006, 12:56 AM | #2 |
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dude that's so wrong. Not trying to be harsh here but wut kind of question is that?? Unless u told him upfront that it was gonna be an open relationship, it's just wrong.
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| 05-26-2006, 12:58 AM | #3 |
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But we aren't in a realtionship.
There is no "us". We've gone at 3 dates.
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He's set himselfupfor failure. Didn't start studying or taking a class until 2 weeks ago and takes it June 12th...
I'm already questioning his intelligence...
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Are you sure he is really studying for the LSAT??? 
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In that case just straight up tell him. It might kill his spirit (he might end up failing haha) but yeah... Something still intrigues me though. Im betting that you didnt tell him upfront that u guys are just dating- as in just hanging out. On the other hand, he thinks that you 2 are a couple now. Better let him know now then... |
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I tend to approach things like a guy (with an iron fist) so I wanted to check to make sure I'm not being youknowwaht!
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I told him I was commitment phobic... I never call him. He calls me. He called me tonight to complain about his class which has me concerned he might think something more than I thought it was. (Which is okay because I like him and would like toget to knoe him better.)
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2. Most guys would not like to know that a girl they are spending any amount of time with.....is out banging other guys. Regardless if you have gone on 1 date....or been together for years. So...no way to win that one. If he cares...you automatically become damaged goods. 3. A guy that would not care....is likely a guy you would not like to be with in the long run....so, maybe its better that YOU do not find out how he feels about it. 4. Would you be ok if he told you that he has been banging someone else also this whole time. If yes...then its all kewel. Best advice........its way to early in the process to tell him everything. What he does not know will not hurt him at this point. Once you guys are an item....no more poking around!
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his call concerned u? how? is it cus u kinda knew he wanted to give u "the talk" again? anyways, I guess you're just testing out diff. guys right now. I guess that's okay as long as you're not in a relationship.  |
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ahhhhh.....well.....if he is asking for one/one only....then best to tell him that you do not see eye to eye right now.
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Why must youppl call it "BANGING" it's SEX pure and simple...
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I tend to approach things like a guy (with an iron fist) Us people...refer to it in various derrogatory terms........banging being a favorite. If you want to be pure and simple..........sex to most guys is about our pleasure....and we bang, hit it, and tear that shit up. We hardly ever have sexual intercourse. Good luck with your buddy.
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That's allsex is about.. I mean it can be more.But Im not ready for that.I realize it's totally about pleasure...
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