Italy here i come.. OR....?

[mava330]

Originally Posted by docbolo

The secret is in the midwest and texas perhaps. so. cal. pool of women is crap. who knows. Finding a hot chick with no baggage that likes to screw, hates drama and has values is a modern holy grail I guess.

wish I could join you all tomorrow for the fest. you are one cool dude mav--

homie. Check out Florida man. My ex-wife #2 was from there and they're raised differently. Half Italian half Cuban... best of both worlds.

[tim916]

Originally Posted by docbolo

LMFAO!

When you find that girl, and if she is physically hot, and she is settle-down material, please send her DNA to a lab so they can study this new life form!

Actually, found it, and then lost it.

[magmd]

due to the circumstances of me leaving in a few months, why start something i cant finish


ahhhhh...well, I guess he started being a little too nice trying to get you to go to Italia....should have been more of an ass from time to time...then you would still be interested, and looking at this trip as an experience to learn by.

Too nice => hot girl contemplates long term issues=> hot girl loses interest

[docbolo]

Originally Posted by BellasBmw

inside i knew i didnt really want to be with him.

which is exactly why you should have never even told him you would think about it. Its like when you are a kid and ask your mom if you can go to the toy store tomorrow and she says "maybe, I'll think about it". You don't end up going to the damn store, so why not just tell the kid "No, wait for christmas fool". Tough love is good.

You have started alot of these relationship threads. By now you must know what dudes are thinking.

not trying to bust your chops, just sticking up for another poor fool that has been crushed by a hot chick with a Samsonite luggage case of issues. Besides, arent you tired of the leg-humping Ms. Bella is always right responses?

[tim916]

Originally Posted by BellasBmw

Well i was interested in him, its not like i was going out on these dates just to get free food, heck, my family owns a restaurant, i can have free food anytime i want.

However, due to the circumstances of me leaving in a few months, why start something i cant finish. Im not keen on the idea of long distance relationships. Plus, this is my chance to really get out there and find out who i am, the last thing i need is a guy to miss or think about.

Plus, i was looking for faults in him. I was probably subconsciencly trying to find stuff wrong with him, cause inside i knew i didnt really want to be with him. O well, it ended well.. so its all good!

Bella,

I think if this was really the guy for you, then you would have gone on that trip in a second, regardless of your plans. So don't feel like you need to rationalize your descision for yourself or anyone else.

You know what they say: life is what happens to you when you are busy making other plans.

[docbolo]

Originally Posted by magmd

Too nice => hot girl contemplates long term issues=> hot girl loses interest

a formula to always remember

[BellasBmw]

Originally Posted by docbolo

which is exactly why you should have never even told him you would think about it. Its like when you are a kid and ask your mom if you can go to the toy store tomorrow and she says "maybe, I'll think about it". You don't end up going to the damn store, so why not just tell the kid "No, wait for christmas fool". Tough love is good.

You have started alot of these relationship threads. By now you must know what dudes are thinking.

not trying to bust your chops, just sticking up for another poor fool that has been crushed by a hot chick with a Samsonite luggage case of issues. Besides, arent you tired of the leg-humping Ms. Bella is always right responses?

So you saying that i have samonsite luggage case of issues?

[magmd]

Originally Posted by BellasBmw

So you saying that i have samonsite luggage case of issues?

Niiiiice....samsonite is a great brand.

[docbolo]

Originally Posted by BellasBmw

So you saying that i have samonsite luggage case of issues?

yes, in my admittedly short time knowing you, this would be my honest assessment.

Anyone disagree??

That said.. Most of the male population of this planet, myself included, would marry you in an instant.

[BellasBmw]

Originally Posted by docbolo

yes, in my admittedly short time knowing you, this would be my honest assessment.

Anyone disagree??

That said.. Most of the male population of this planet, myself included, would marry you in an instant.

Way to save face....

[docbolo]

Originally Posted by BellasBmw

Way to save face....

honesty is always the best policy.

[BellasBmw]

Originally Posted by docbolo

honesty is always the best policy.

I was honest with him.. atlesat i didnt milk this kid out of everything he had, THEN say, im not interested in you.

[docbolo]

Originally Posted by BellasBmw

I was honest with him.. atlesat i didnt milk this kid out of everything he had, THEN say, im not interested in you.

You wouldnt have done that because you would have had to do all kinds of milking and you werent into him in that way. You handled it OK, but not perfectly, from the vantage point of a guy, IMO.

Isnt that why you started this thread? To get a dudes advice? e90post = sausagefest. There are no ladies opinions here.

I would not mind occasionally logging onto a site with hot single women and post my problems there and hear ALL of their opinions, good and bad.

[BMW F22]

funny how she refers to him as "kid"

[docbolo]

Originally Posted by BMWE90

funny how she refers to him as "kid"

I thought that was cute too. very sicilian.

[docbolo]

"Well to be honest with you, he had issues w/ his x that i found out about. She was staying at his apartment, while she looked for her own. Supposedly she lost her job, and they are still close so he's helping her out. But he swore left and right that they arent hooking up and shes leaving in 2 weeks.

So when i found that out, i was like BUH BYE!!!! He kept telling me that he likes me and doesnt want this to affect our relationship.. i told him, no its all good..cause now i dont feel so bad telling u that i just wanna be friends.

btw- i found this out AFTER i told him NO to italy.."

You should have welcomed the "kid" to the friend-zone right away.

[flush01]

man im so hammered right now lol all i gatta say is that pretty girls think different thnen non good looking once (i know that caz i been with one).. they have alot more options and its tough for them to decide what they want really... but AT LEAST she didn't go on the trip and then said "sorry, im not interested in you since i'm moving" that woiould be alow blow big time... because ALOT of other girls would of take adventage of that fool for sure... anyways, its time for me to go rest

[MB330]

http://www.e90post.com/forums/showthread.php?t=20319

Originally Posted by BellasBmw

. . . Its the fact that, well, its kinda soon. I mean we just started hanging out and we're planning a trip.

Bella, this is your answer, girl.

Do not discount the importance of this.

Trust your instincts.

Originally Posted by BellasBmw

I decided that im not gonna go on this trip. I dont think its right

Whew!

[SiR]

Originally Posted by mava330

homie. Check out Florida man. My ex-wife #2 was from there and they're raised differently. Half Italian half Cuban... best of both worlds.

Havent found them yet, feels just like high school still. Maybe the hurricanes will clean some of the bad ones out this year!

[E90-4life]

Originally Posted by BellasBmw

So i broke the news to him. Told him i dont feel right about going, and i think its best we just stay friends. I dont want to date anyone, and sorry if he thought otherwise. He was cool about it... so .. im in the clear