Italy here i come.. OR....?

gohawks23 · 05-17-2006, 06:39 PM

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Originally Posted by BellasBmw

Yeah i know.. i feel bad cause we're supposed to grab some dinner tonight at my resturant, that way my mom gets a better feel of him.. But now im thinking this is like a freaking marriage set up or sometihng. Anyway, whatever happens, if i decide No to italy, well then, this is just a date for him to try out our faboulous food

Actually, tell him 'no' just to see how he responds...read his eyes, actions, response, etc...you could learn a lot about him this way...

Oz · 05-17-2006, 06:49 PM

I personally wouldn't go out to a vacation out of the country (even in the country) with someone that I just met recently. You don't truly know the person when you just meet them so I personally cant trust someone that quick. I think trust is much more important then having this person pay your vacation and expecting something in return (maybe not, it could be some great guy)

But this is your decision and I'm sure you'll make the right one. Just don't lead the guy on and know that long distance relationships and being in different places/school is a challange!

flush01 · 05-17-2006, 07:44 PM

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Originally Posted by BellasBmw

HAHAH for real! I had to bust out websters just to get through that sentence.

lol same here, dictionary.com is your friend

deutschmann59 · 05-17-2006, 08:26 PM

C'mon bella, you'll be on the east coast soon. Why don't you drop this zero and find a real hero (me)

I'll take you to Italy if you want...soon as I get some extra spending cash in about 6 years...

BellasBmw · 05-17-2006, 10:25 PM

We went out to dinner tonight, actually hes a great guy. And i am starting to develop a lil crush.. hmm, maybe italy isnt such a bad idea. ha ha

BMW F22 · 05-17-2006, 10:28 PM

YES!!! nice guys win in the end muahahaha

aapriadi · 05-17-2006, 11:47 PM

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Originally Posted by BMWE90

YES!!! nice guys win in the end muahahaha

thats

for me dude, no offense but its just me
i'm so sick of being the good guy coz in the end i always get turned down and shiet..then i see all my jerk friends with their gfs, the girls know that their bfs are assholes but it seems that the girls dont mind..either i have a bad luck or i'm not fated to be a good guy
so :finger: it, i'm gonna be a jerk from now on

Squawks · 05-18-2006, 10:48 AM

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Originally Posted by BellasBmw

We went out to dinner tonight, actually hes a great guy. And i am starting to develop a lil crush.. hmm, maybe italy isnt such a bad idea. ha ha

What if he was dirt broke and Italy was never mentioned? Would you still have a lil crush on him?

If not, then

deutschmann59 · 05-18-2006, 11:50 AM

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Originally Posted by Squawks

What if he was dirt broke and Italy was never mentioned? Would you still have a lil crush on him?

If not, then

Yep, after all is said and done, everything comes down to the almighty dollar.

BellasBmw · 05-18-2006, 12:09 PM

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Originally Posted by Squawks

What if he was dirt broke and Italy was never mentioned? Would you still have a lil crush on him?

If not, then

I didnt know he had money when i agreed to our first date, so...

anyway until i have the plane ticket in my hand, this is still all up in the air

Robin_NL · 05-18-2006, 12:11 PM

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Originally Posted by BellasBmw

I didnt know he had money when i agreed to our first date, so...

anyway until i have the plane ticket in my hand, this is still all up in the air

Plane ticket? Better let him buy the whole 747.

Travolta is from Italian descent as well.

Almost forgot:Just Kidding, Bella(you know that

)

RedStripe · 05-18-2006, 12:12 PM

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Originally Posted by BellasBmw

I didnt know he had money when i agreed to our first date, so...

anyway until i have the plane ticket in my hand, this is still all up in the air

That's a figure of speech, right? Or do you really mean you'll wait till after he buys the plane tickets before deciding whether to go.

Now, that would be leverage!

Squawks · 05-18-2006, 12:21 PM

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Originally Posted by sharp1183

Yep, after all is said and done, everything comes down to the almighty dollar.

Dude, sharp, then stop being thrifty and use it to your advantage! No wonder why you're still single! j/k!

It's not a matter of question whether you can be bought or not...the real question is how much.

deutschmann59 · 05-18-2006, 12:37 PM

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Originally Posted by Squawks

Dude, sharp, then stop being thrifty and use it to your advantage! No wonder why you're still single! j/k!

It's not a matter of question whether you can be bought or not...the real question is how much.

Ha ha ha!!! Nah, I'm pretty comfortable financially for being 22, but I think it all comes down to the fact that I'm a selfish, self-centered, cheapscate!

But I'm smart, though. I'd rather have the money in my wallet rather than give it to some girl who'll probably just break my heart in the end...

BellasBmw · 05-18-2006, 12:44 PM

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Originally Posted by sharp1183

Ha ha ha!!! Nah, I'm pretty comfortable financially for being 22, but I think it all comes down to the fact that I'm a selfish, self-centered, cheapscate!

But I'm smart, though. I'd rather have the money in my wallet rather than give it to some girl who'll probably just break my heart in the end...

You got no optimism dude! You never know..she just might NOT break your heart in the end.You never know unless you try

flush01 · 05-18-2006, 02:13 PM

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Originally Posted by BellasBmw

You got no optimism dude! You never know..she just might NOT break your heart in the end.You never know unless you try

that's like a 5% chance, pretty weak chance I say

slubu · 05-18-2006, 02:54 PM

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Originally Posted by BMWE90

YES!!! rich guys win in the end muahahaha

fixed for accuracy.

BiggieJ · 05-18-2006, 04:48 PM

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Originally Posted by flush01

that's like a 5% chance, pretty weak chance I say

5% is better than 0%. and if you did this 20 times, then itll be like 100%...right

...

flush01 · 05-18-2006, 04:49 PM

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Originally Posted by BiggieJ

5% is better than 0%. and if you did this 20 times, then itll be like 100%...right

...

hah thats true

BellasBmw · 05-18-2006, 11:06 PM

I decided that im not gonna go on this trip. I dont think its right

ward · 05-18-2006, 11:09 PM

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Originally Posted by BellasBmw

I decided that im not gonna go on this trip. I dont think its right

I hadn't chimed in on this yet, but I think you've made the right call

guys are pretty dumb in the reguards that often we think we can buy the affection of a pretty lady.

I'm sure you'll be able to head out there again on your own terms later, and you'll have more fun that way.

slubu · 05-18-2006, 11:15 PM

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Originally Posted by BellasBmw

I decided that im not gonna go on this trip. I dont think its right

I'm kinda drunk right now and I remembered you are Italian. First off, why aren't you going on the trip. Second, there is this girl in my house that has been trying to cook lasagne for the past two hours...is this normal?

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deutschmann59 Captain 174 Rep 737 Posts Drives: 2006 325i Join Date: Mar 2005 Location: e90post.com iTrader: (0)	C'mon bella, you'll be on the east coast soon. Why don't you drop this zero and find a real hero (me) I'll take you to Italy if you want...soon as I get some extra spending cash in about 6 years...
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05-17-2006, 10:25 PM	#137
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