Here's my setup with the stock wheels(261M).
ST Coilovers: 16 threads from the bottom on the front, about 1/16" raise from complete drop on the rears.
12mm spacers in front.
15mm spacers in rear.
M3 front control arms.
Slight rubbing in the rear with passenger, need to raise or roll or both. I probably could have fit a 15mm spacer in the front.
Update: Raised the rear to 1/4" from complete drop and no more rubbing with a full tank of gas unless I'm going down a huge bump like my driveway.