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Originally Posted by Lups
^^ Went through this two years ago. In my case the huge relief about him being without pain and me not having to fight every second of every day was so much to deal with it took over a year to get sad over the loss, and just now I'm starting to feel guilty over euthanasia which I take full credit for.
I don't fear death, but I fear not living.
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Yeah every situation is different.
I know when my grandpa passed in 2013, it felt different and my mom even admitted it so. With him we had time to mentally prepare, comfort and grieve together- and while it sucked to see such a good man go- the pain he was going through (lung cancer) was a bit much to take, that there was a sigh of relief for him. He genuinely looked at peace when he left us.
With my dad it was so sudden, it's like an emotional 10.0 earthquake struck without warning